The Birth Story
For those of you that have kept up on my posts, you know this last week was really rough on me. Everything just got harder and my body felt like it had enough. Tuesday, April 19th, the day before the girls were at 31 weeks gestation, I got up to work on the computer in the morning and noticed the contractions I'd been having for a couple months were starting to hurt. And starting to be more intense in my back. This went on gradually for a couple hours and of course I looked awful. So laugh now, but I actually decided that just in case this turned into something I needed to hurry and slap on some make up and do my hair for the first time in days. Haha, I know it's terrible. But it was only a 5 minute job & I'm glad I did it!
After feeling VERY confident that these were REAL active labor contractions, I told Erik we needed to go in. We were surprised-we had expected my water to break first but that's just not how it went down.
When I got to the hospital, I was dilated to a 5-6. Dr A said he didn't want to C section yet but that I wouldn't be going back home at this point. He put me on Magnesium to slow the contractions and help with the babies neuro development. Hoping to keep them in there another 10-15 hours. It felt AWFUL...anyone who's ever had mag will tell ya the same I'm sure! Makes ya feel horrible. But it wasn't for long.
Picture time, yep, right in the middle of killer contractions. I'm a trooper like that.
Some of our family had started showing up so I was feeling better about it all happening. After only an hour of the magnesium, my contractions weren't stopping and I was dilated to a 7-8. It was Go Time and I was SCARED! I had wanted to be done so badly but didn't anticipate how scared I would be of the C Section. After a great blessing from my hubby, I was calming down...and who has the BEST husband in the world? I do. He held my hand through everything no matter how bad I freaked out. Dr A is a hoot to be in this fiasco with and he joked through it all which kept me from hopping off the table and running for the street!
The C Section started around 3. When Erik and I heard Hallie cry we both lost it and cried. Watching my husband cry during a child birth has been something I've always looked forward to and seeing that love in him radiating without caring who saw it just melted me & made me so proud to be sharing this with him. Payten cried too...then came Saydee and her little cry. We didn't expect them to be crying with them being so young, but they did and it was perfect because I didn't get to see them until after the C Section...hearing them made up for that.
The girls were doing amazing right off the bat. Saydee had to be revived at first but thank heavens for modern technology and talented medical staff! I didn't do too bad after...just itched like a crazy person for hours...ok DAYS afterward.
The girls may be in the NICU for around 6 weeks...but could come home earlier...or later depending on how they do reaching their "goals". The girls were on ventilators the first day and they all ended up a little jaundice for a couple days as well. Here are some of their first pics.
Payten's LEGS are stealing this picture. They really all have VERY long legs, fingers & finger toes (as I like to call them). They got ZERO of this from their short stubby mom. Payten's are the most dramatic though...she has these beautiful long fingers and she uses them so daintily. Never seen anything like it!
Little Payte
Saydee J
Hallie & Mommy for the first time. Soooo teeny little lady!
Family Time w/ Hallie & Payten
Payten w/Daddy for her first time! Isn't he glowing?
Sweet Hallie
As of now, the girls are all off the ventilators, they had some pressure given to them through the cannullas in their nose but only Saydee has one in now. They are breathing room air! This is the best news to me! Look how gorgeous they are without all the junk on their face! The little tube in their mouths is their feeding tube. Every 4 hours they get fed breastmilk through their tube. But I can tell you they WANT to feed. They make the sucking motions and show all the signs with their tongues and mouths that they want to nurse. Their little bodies just aren't ready yet and that is SO hard to take because I wish I could.

We've now started "Skin To Skin". This is my FAVORITE! Basically, it's where mommy gets to hold them up to your naked skin under your shirt or gown and have some snuggle time for at least an hour. There are so many benefits for this...mostly to help promote nursing but also for bonding. They can hear your heartbeat, your voice, feel your breathing and just overall feel close to you again. And if their body temp drops a little, yours will make up for it and warm them back up. I can't get enough of this stuff. Here's some Skin To Skin
Saydee

Payten
I'll be going home on Easter...definitely torn about this. I heard the Easter Bunny is going to be visiting our hospital room so that should be fun!For now, we are so disgustingly in love with our 3 new Princess additions and with our stud Kayson on top of that, we are VERY lucky and happy parents, full of gratitude this Easter. We had a perfect & healthy pregnancy, ended up with 3 pretty healthy beauties and big brother has been so strong through all of this even though he's not allowed to see his little sisters. We're all going to have to be tough to get through this. Leaving them here is going to break my heart, but being away from Kayson does the same and we need them 100% before they see their new home.
Thank you so much to all our sweet friends, family and the hospital staff for everything provided to our family. We have been blessed to see your faces and receive some of the cutest and most thoughtful gifts. There are too many people to include here so just know that each and every one of you is appreciated and loved! This Easter our hearts are overflowing.
Happy Easter Everyone!
Love,
Erik, Jess, Kayson, Hallie, Payten & Saydee
17 comments:
What beautiful little blessings! They are so tiny, I cannot believe it! We are so happy for your family! I am so glad that the girls are doing so well already, and how much of a trooper Kayson has been. You guys are an adorable family! I hope that the girls get to come home sooner than later. Good luck with coming home today and have a very Happy Easter! Congratulations again!
What a beautiful post! I am so happy that things went so well & that you and the girls are doing so good! What a beautiful blessing! And I LOVE the pics of all the girls in their beds & how they are all laying the same with one arm above their little heads. Just precious! Take care of yourself & enjoy every single second! Lots of love from the Gibb family to yours! Happy Easter & Congrats again!
My goodness they are beautiful! Congratulations on making it so far and having healthy babies! That is amazing that they are on room air already. And I LOVED doing skin to skin! And you are so lucky to be able to do it already, I had to wait months. Hope you're feeling better! And congrats again!
They are So Beautiful! I'm so glad everything went so well. Such a Gorgeous Family you have :)
What a great post! I'm not gonna lie, i've been waiting for it & checking back often! They are all so beautiful. You and Erik are just glowing! You guys are all amazing!
Congrats again! I just can't get enough of their cuteness and had to come back for a second look! Just as beautiful as their momma! The picture of Erik holding Hallie's tiny little hand melts my heart.
My heart is so full - I have been thinking about you so often! I wish I could be near you during this huge milestone in your life! The girls are beautiful and I am so happy for you!
I am so glad that they arrived her safely and that they are doing so well! Congratulations, I am so happy for you and your cute little (or not so little) family!
Awe Man. You are one lucky momma! So happy for you Jessica. They are wonderfully beautiful. AND, I was so scared for my c-section with Kaleb and I only had one coming out so I salute you momma!!!! Way to go.
Love it. Love it all. So happy for you guys again. And I can't wait until I can hold them!
What beautiful little girls! Reading about their birth and progress made me cry. I'm happy for you and your family. You all make such a beautiful, complete family. Awesome!
They are so beautiful!!! I am so happy for all of you and you all are glowing!!! I just can't wait to see them and hold those darling girls!! Give Kayson a hug huge from me!!!
What beautiful and tiny little babies! Congrats Jess. I'm so glad that everything went well.
Your little girls are so adorable! I'm am SO happy you made it so far and that they are healthy. You are one cute mama!
I have to say that I cried through this entire post. So incredibly touching. I'm so happy for you and your cute not so small anymore family :) I had a baby in the NICU so reading your experience made all those memories come flooding back. You will go through a million emotions (times 3 for you) but mostly just gratitude and sheer joy. It's amazing how resilient babies are. They are absolutely beautiful. Congratulations.
Btw Trevor did not write that last post. Haha. Trevor is my husband. I wrote it (Alexa Hazen) and accidentally posted it under my Trevors account :) Anyways congrats again!!
Wow I am sooo happy for your cute not so little family! Your baby girls are just precious and I am very glad that they are doing so well. You are a champ and make it look so easy, good job Mamma!!! I can't wait to come see you and then someday see the babes too! Congrats:)
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