Saturday, August 7, 2010

The "No Matter What" part...

August was the promise...
September we got comfy
October we took care of each other
November we made plans
December we sealed our traditions
January we made goals
February we worked on love
March we prepared to move on and start a new home
April we struggled....
May, we worked hard & apart too much
June we worked on fun
July we went on a vacay
and now...
We've made it a year!!
Some say the 1st year is the hardest...we laughed in their faces thinking it would be the easiest one. WRONG.
The first year is a rollercoaster with a mix of the best and the worst. But now that we've made it through it, we know that everything we've gone through, we've GROWN through. The magic of the Lord in our relationship has had the power to make our wounds heal, our lonely times made up by time together, our hurtful words disappear, and the confusion lifted by the comfort of knowing WE are home when we see eachother.
I recently heard this lyric in a song "they say it's best to go your separate ways, guess that they don't know ya cuz today that was yesterday. Yesterday is over, it's a different day..."
In all seriousness that simple of a line is what it comes down to for us. Our bad days aren't every day. Every day is different. And breathing deep and slow until the next good day is more than worth it. And remembering the good days prior and that they are coming again is more than enough to hold out for. If it was easy it wouldn't be worth it. We know how blessed we are to have found each other and to be able to anchor our home on the gift that "Families Are Forever".
The 3 of us came together only through our enduring faith in finding what we'd been looking for our whole lives and in knowing our Father believed in that for us as well. We have so much to be excited for and I can't wait to take on the rest!!
Happy Anniversary Hubcap...I love figuring this out with YOU!
Love, Your Wife ;)

4 comments:

Denise said...

What a sweet post! You two are adorable together. Congrats & Happy Anniversary!

...Ashlee... said...

I LOVE this post. That was the cutest way to honor the past year. You're so cute. Congrats on making it through :)

Reena said...

So HAPPY for you two. :) Here's to another 60 years together!

Bry and Amb said...

You're darling Jess. Your attitude and passion inspire me at times :) I hope you guys had an awesome day together!